Teman dan Persoalan Hubungan Toxic Dalam Pandangan Etika Persahabatan Aristoteles
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In life, it is undeniable that someone meets fellow human beings. When humans often interact with other humans, a good relationship bond is established as an acquaintance, friend, friend, or even a life partner. However, in some relationships a friend or someone we know appears who has toxic behavior. Toxic behavior that comes out, sometimes makes us hurt and lazy to have a relationship with that person. Someone in a friendship who has toxic behavior usually won't realize if their behavior makes the group in the friendship uncomfortable and ultimately don't want to be friends with that person anymore. In this article, the author wants to discuss the toxic behavior that is usually found in relationships in the friendship environment and find solutions to overcome toxic relationships. The author uses the literature study method where the author discusses research by reading and referring to the results of previous research. The author tries to formulate the problems to be discussed in this paper in the form of types of toxic behavior that are usually carried out in friendships, ways to deal with toxic behavior, as well as what kind of friendship ethics needs to be done to maintain this friendly relationship. The writer analyzes these matters using the guidance from Aristotle's views on the ethics of friendship. Based on the results of the analysis that the writer has done, the writer can provide new insights and advice to someone who feels they are in a toxic friendship or friendship environment.
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